July 14, 2003



Dear Stockholder:

     We are pleased to invite you to attend the Annual  Meeting of  Stockholders
of Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc., (the "Company"). The Annual Meeting will be held
at  the  Hyatt   Regency-Greenwich,   1800  E.  Putnam  Avenue,  Old  Greenwich,
Connecticut 06870 at 10:00 a.m., (local time) on August 14, 2003.

     The  enclosed  Notice of Annual  Meeting and Proxy  Statement  describe the
formal business to be transacted.

    At the Annual  Meeting,  stockholders  will be given an  opportunity to
elect  directors and to ratify the  appointment  of KPMG LLP as auditors for the
Company's 2004 fiscal year.

     The Board of Directors of the Company has determined that the matters to be
considered at the Annual Meeting are in the best interest of the Company and its
stockholders.  For the  reasons set forth in the proxy  statement,  the Board of
Directors unanimously recommends a vote "FOR" each matter to be considered.

     On behalf of the Board of Directors,  we urge you to sign,  date and return
the  enclosed  proxy card as soon as  possible,  even if you  currently  plan to
attend the Annual Meeting.  Your vote is important,  regardless of the number of
shares that you own. Voting by proxy will not prevent you from voting in person,
but will  assure  that  your vote is  counted  if you are  unable to attend  the
meeting.


Sincerely,


/s/ Richard P. McStravick
-------------------------
Richard P. McStravick
President and Chief Executive Officer






                           Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.
                             1311 Mamaroneck Avenue
                          White Plains, New York 10605
                                 (914) 761-3636

                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                          To Be Held On August 14, 2003

     Notice is hereby given that the Annual  Meeting of Sound  Federal  Bancorp,
Inc. (the "Company") will be held at the Hyatt Regency-Greenwich, 1800 E. Putnam
Avenue, Old Greenwich, Connecticut 06870 on August 14, 2003 at 10:00 a.m., local
time.

     A Proxy Card and a Proxy Statement for the Annual Meeting are enclosed.

     The Annual Meeting is for the purpose of considering and acting upon:

1.   The election of three directors of the Company;

2.   The ratification of the appointment of KPMG LLP as auditors for the Company
     for the fiscal year ending March 31, 2004; and

3.   Such other matters as may properly come before the Annual  Meeting,  or any
     adjournments  thereof.  The  Board of  Directors  is not aware of any other
     business to come before the Annual Meeting.

     Any action may be taken on the foregoing proposals at the Annual Meeting on
the date specified  above,  including all  adjournments  of the Annual  Meeting.
Stockholders  of  record  at the  close of  business  on June  23,  2003 are the
stockholders  entitled  to  vote at the  Annual  Meeting,  and any  adjournments
thereof.

     EACH STOCKHOLDER,  WHETHER HE OR SHE PLANS TO ATTEND THE ANNUAL MEETING, IS
REQUESTED TO SIGN,  DATE AND RETURN THE ENCLOSED PROXY CARD WITHOUT DELAY IN THE
ENCLOSED  POSTAGE-PAID  ENVELOPE.  ANY  PROXY  GIVEN BY THE  STOCKHOLDER  MAY BE
REVOKED  AT ANY TIME  BEFORE IT IS  EXERCISED.  A PROXY MAY BE REVOKED BY FILING
WITH THE SECRETARY OF THE COMPANY A WRITTEN  REVOCATION OR A DULY EXECUTED PROXY
BEARING A LATER DATE. ANY  STOCKHOLDER  PRESENT AT THE ANNUAL MEETING MAY REVOKE
HIS OR HER PROXY AND VOTE  PERSONALLY ON EACH MATTER  BROUGHT  BEFORE THE ANNUAL
MEETING.  HOWEVER,  IF YOU ARE A STOCKHOLDER  WHOSE SHARES ARE NOT REGISTERED IN
YOUR OWN NAME, YOU WILL NEED ADDITIONAL DOCUMENTATION FROM YOUR RECORD HOLDER IN
ORDER TO VOTE PERSONALLY AT THE ANNUAL MEETING.

                                              By Order of the Board of Directors


                                              /s/ Anthony J. Fabiano
                                              ---------------------
                                              Anthony J. Fabiano
                                              Corporate Secretary


White Plains, New York
July 14, 2003


IMPORTANT:  A  SELF-ADDRESSED  ENVELOPE IS  ENCLOSED  FOR YOUR  CONVENIENCE.  NO
POSTAGE IS REQUIRED IF MAILED WITHIN THE UNITED STATES.



                                 PROXY STATEMENT

                           SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP, INC.
                             1311 Mamaroneck Avenue
                          White Plains, New York 10605
                                 (914) 761-3636

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                 August 14, 2003

     This Proxy  Statement is furnished in connection  with the  solicitation of
proxies on behalf of the Board of Directors of Sound Federal Bancorp,  Inc. (the
"Company") to be used at the Annual Meeting of  Stockholders of the Company (the
"Meeting"),  which will be held at the Hyatt  Regency-Greenwich,  1800 E. Putnam
Avenue, Old Greenwich, Connecticut 06870 on August 14, 2003 at 10:00 a.m., local
time, and all adjournments thereof. The accompanying Notice of Annual Meeting of
Stockholders  and this Proxy Statement are first being mailed to stockholders on
or about July 14, 2003.

                              REVOCATION OF PROXIES

     Stockholders  who execute  proxies in the form solicited  hereby retain the
right to revoke  them in the manner  described  below.  Unless so  revoked,  the
shares  represented  by  such  proxies  will be  voted  at the  Meeting  and all
adjournments  thereof.  Proxies solicited on behalf of the Board of Directors of
the Company will be voted in accordance with the directions given thereon. Where
no  instructions  are  indicated,  proxies will be voted "FOR" the proposals set
forth in this Proxy Statement for consideration at the Meeting.

     Proxies  may be revoked  by sending  written  notice of  revocation  to the
Secretary of the Company,  at the address of the Company  shown above,  voting a
later  dated  proxy,  or by  attending  the  Meeting  and voting in person.  The
presence  at the  Meeting  of any  stockholder  who had given a proxy  shall not
revoke such proxy unless the stockholder delivers his or her ballot in person at
the Meeting or delivers a written  revocation  to the  Secretary  of the Company
prior to the  voting of such  proxy.  However,  if you are a  stockholder  whose
shares are not registered in your name, you will need appropriate documents from
your record holder to vote personally at the Meeting.

                 VOTING SECURITIES AND PRINCIPAL HOLDERS THEREOF

     Holders of record of the Company's  common stock,  par value $.01 per share
(the "Common Stock"),  as of the close of business on June 23, 2003 (the "Record
Date") are entitled to one vote for each share then held. As of the Record Date,
the Company had 13,247,133  shares of Common Stock issued and  outstanding.  The
presence in person or by proxy of a majority of the outstanding shares of Common
Stock  entitled to vote is necessary to  constitute a quorum at the Meeting.  In
the event there are not sufficient  votes for a quorum,  or to approve or ratify
any matter  being  presented  at the time of the  Meeting,  the  Meeting  may be
adjourned in order to permit further solicitation of proxies.

     Directors  are  elected by a plurality  of the shares  voted at the Meeting
without regard to broker  non-votes or proxies as to which the authority to vote
is being withheld.  The  ratification of auditors must be approved by a majority
of the shares voted at the Meeting without regard to broker non-votes or proxies
marked "abstain."

     In accordance  with the provisions of the Certificate of  Incorporation  of
the Company,  record holders of Common Stock who  beneficially  own in excess of
10% of the outstanding  shares of Common Stock (the "Limit") are not entitled to
any vote with respect to the shares held in excess of the Limit.  The  Company's
Certificate of  Incorporation  authorizes the Board of Directors (i) to make all
determinations necessary to implement and apply the Limit, including determining
whether  persons or entities are acting in concert,  and (ii) to demand that any
person who is  reasonably  believed to  beneficially  own stock in excess of the
Limit  supply  information  to the Company to enable the Board of  Directors  to
implement and apply the Limit.



     Persons and groups who  beneficially  own in excess of five  percent of the
Common  Stock are  required to file  certain  reports  with the  Securities  and
Exchange  Commission ("SEC") regarding such ownership pursuant to the Securities
Exchange Act of 1934 (the "Exchange Act").

     The following table sets forth, as of the Record Date, the shares of Common
Stock beneficially owned by named executive officers and directors individually,
by executive  officers  and  directors as a group and by each person who was the
beneficial owner of more than five percent of the Company's  outstanding  shares
of Common Stock on the Record Date.



                                                        Amount of Shares                   Percent of Shares
             Name and Address of                        Owned and Nature                    of Common Stock
              Beneficial Owner                     of Beneficial Ownership(4)                Outstanding (2)(3)

                                                                                     
Significant Shareholders:
  Sound Federal Savings Employee Stock
  Ownership Plan and Trust
  1311 Mamaroneck Avenue
  White Plains, New York 10605                            1,125,421                               8.5%

Named Directors and Executive Officers:(1)

Bruno J. Gioffre                                            215,124                               1.6

Richard P. McStravick                                       250,403                               1.9

Joseph Dinolfo                                              110,034                               0.8

Donald H. Heithaus                                          122,854                               0.9

Joseph A. Lanza                                              90,708                               0.7

Eldorus Maynard                                              45,434                               0.3

James Staudt                                                 65,397                               0.5

Samuel T. Telerico                                            1,130                              --

Anthony J. Fabiano                                          139,364                               1.0
                                                            -------                             -----

All executive officers and directors
  as a group (9 persons)                                    1,040,448                             7.6%
                                                            =========                           =====

-----------------------------
(1)  The Company's  executive officers and directors are also executive officers
     and directors of Sound Federal Savings (the "Bank").
(2)  Includes  14,575  shares  awarded to each outside  director  other than Mr.
     Telerico  and Mr.  Maynard,  58,100  shares  and 38,733  shares  awarded to
     Messrs.  McStravick  and Fabiano,  respectively,  pursuant to the Company's
     Recognition  and Retention  Plan  ("RRP").  Also  includes  40,948  shares,
     101,816  shares,  and 88,536  shares for Messrs.  Gioffre,  McStravick  and
     Fabiano,  respectively,  and  30,988  shares  each  for  Messrs.  Heithaus,
     Dinolfo,  Lanza and Staudt  subject to options  pursuant  to the  Company's
     Stock Option Plan ("SOP").
(3)  Calculated as a percentage of common shares  outstanding plus stock options
     that are exercisable within 60 days.
(4)  Unless  otherwise  indicated,  each person  effectively  exercises sole (or
     shared with spouse) voting and dispositive power as to the shares reported.


                        PROPOSAL I--ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

     The Company's Board of Directors  currently consists of eight members.  The
Board of Directors  increased the size of the Board to nine members,  creating a
vacancy.  The  Company's  bylaws  provide  that  approximately  one-third of the

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directors  are to be elected  annually.  Directors of the Company are  generally
elected to serve for a three-year  period or until their  respective  successors
shall have been elected and shall  qualify.  Three  directors will be elected at
the Meeting.  The Board of Directors has nominated to serve as directors  Donald
H.  Heithaus,  Joseph A.  Lanza and  Roberta I.  Bernhardt,  each to serve for a
three-year term.  Messrs.  Heithaus and Lanza are currently members of the Board
of Directors.

     The table below sets forth certain information regarding the composition of
the  Company's  Board of  Directors,  including  the  terms of  office  of Board
members.  It is intended  that the proxies  solicited  on behalf of the Board of
Directors  (other  than  proxies in which the vote is withheld as to one or more
nominees)  will be  voted  at the  Meeting  for  the  election  of the  nominees
identified  below. If any nominee is unable to serve, the shares  represented by
all such proxies will be voted for the election of such  substitute as the Board
of Directors may  recommend.  At this time,  the Board of Directors  knows of no
reason why any of the nominees might be unable to serve,  if elected.  Except as
indicated  herein,  there are no  arrangements  or  understandings  between  any
nominee and any other person  pursuant to which such nominee was  selected.  The
Board of  Directors  recommends  a vote "FOR" each of the  nominees for director
listed in this proxy statement.




                                                                                         Shares of
                                                                                        Common Stock
                                                                             Current   Beneficially
                                                                  Director     Term     Owned on the      Percent
         Name               Age           Positions Held        Since (1)    to Expire  Record Date (2)   of Class
-------------------        -------    ----------------------  -----------   ----------  ------------      ---------

                                    NOMINEES

                                                                                          
Donald H. Heithaus          68               Director             1978         2003        122,854          0.9%

Joseph A. Lanza             56               Director             1998         2003         90,708          0.7

Roberta I. Bernhardt        64                  --                 --           --             --            --


                         DIRECTORS CONTINUING IN OFFICE


Joseph Dinolfo                69               Director             1985         2004       110,034         0.8

Eldorus Maynard               68               Director             2000         2004        45,434         0.3

Samuel T. Telerico            67               Director             2001         2004         1,130          --

Bruno J. Gioffre              68         Chairman of the Board      1975         2005       215,124         1.6

James Staudt                  50               Director             1987         2005        65,397         0.5

Richard P. McStravick         54           President, Chief         1996         2005       250,403         1.9
                                           Executive Officer
                                             and Director


----------------------------

(1)   Reflects initial appointment to the Board of Directors of the Bank's
      mutual predecessor.
(2)   Includes 14,575 shares awarded to each outside director other than Mr.
      Maynard and Mr. Telerico, and 58,100 shares awarded to Mr. McStravick,
      pursuant to the recognition and retention plan. Also includes 40,948
      shares and 101,816 shares for Messrs. Gioffre and McStravick,
      respectively, and 30,988 shares each for Messrs. Staudt, Heithaus, Lanza
      and Dinolfo subject to options pursuant to the stock option plan.

     The principal occupation during the past five years of each director of the
Company is set forth below. All directors and executive officers have held their
present positions for all five years unless otherwise stated.

     Bruno J. Gioffre is the Chairman of the Board of Directors  and has been so
since December 1997. Mr. Gioffre was formerly  general  counsel to the Bank. Mr.
Gioffre  is of  counsel  to the  law  firm of  Gioffre  &  Gioffre  Professional
Corporation and is a retired Senior Justice for the Town of Rye, New York.

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     Richard P. McStravick is President and Chief Executive Officer of the Bank.
Mr.  McStravick has been employed by the Bank in various  capacities since 1977.
Mr. McStravick was appointed to the Board of Directors in 1996.

     Roberta I.  Bernhardt,  CPA is a partner in the  accounting  firm of Citrin
Cooperman & Company, LLP.

     Joseph Dinolfo is the retired President of the Dinolfo Wilson Agency,  Inc.
an insurance agency.

     Donald H. Heithaus is the President of the Happiness Laundry Service, Inc.

     Joseph A. Lanza is the President of Lanza  Electric,  a private  electrical
contractor.

     Eldorus  Maynard is the retired  Chairman of the Board and Chief  Executive
Officer of  Peekskill  Financial  Corporation  ("Peekskill").  Mr.  Maynard  was
employed by Peekskill  since 1958 and became a member of the Company's  Board of
Directors in July 2000.

     James  Staudt is a partner  with the law firm of  McCullough,  Goldberger &
Staudt. Mr. Staudt is also general counsel to the Bank.

     Samuel T. Telerico is a principal with Teledan  Enterprises  International,
an international trade and consulting firm. Mr. Telerico was previously employed
by American Can Company from 1960 until 1990.

Executive Officer Who Is Not A Director

     Anthony J. Fabiano is Senior Vice President,  Chief  Financial  Officer and
Corporate  Secretary of the Company.  He joined the Bank in July 1998.  Prior to
joining the Bank, he was the Chief Financial Officer at MSB Bancorp, Inc.

Ownership Reports by Officers and Directors

     The Common Stock is  registered  pursuant to Section  12(g) of the Exchange
Act. The officers and directors of the Company and beneficial  owners of greater
than 10% of the Company's Common Stock ("10% beneficial owners") are required to
file reports on Forms 3, 4, and 5 with the SEC disclosing  changes in beneficial
ownership of the Common  Stock.  SEC rules  require  disclosure in the Company's
Proxy  Statement  and Annual  Report on Form 10-K of the  failure of an officer,
director or 10% beneficial owner of the Company's Common Stock to file a Form 3,
4 or 5 on a timely  basis.  All  Officers  and  Directors of the Company who are
required to file Forms 3, 4 and 5 filed these forms on a timely basis except for
a Form 4 for Bruno J.  Gioffre  which was  filed  late.  The Form 4 was filed on
January 17, 2003 and reported a purchase of 1,000 shares on March 13, 2002.


                MEETINGS AND COMMITTEES OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

     The business of the  Company's  Board of  Directors  is  conducted  through
meetings and activities of the Board and its committees.  During the fiscal year
ended March 31, 2003,  the Board of Directors of the Company held 16 regular and
special  meetings.  During the year ended March 31, 2003,  no director  attended
fewer than 75 percent of the total  meetings  of the Board of  Directors  of the
Company or the Bank and committees on which such director served.

     The Executive Committee,  which acts as the Compensation  Committee,  meets
periodically  to review the  performance of officers and employees and determine
compensation  programs and  adjustments.  It is comprised of Directors  Gioffre,
Staudt,  Heithaus,  McStravick  and Dinolfo.  The Executive  Committee met three
times during the year ended March 31, 2003.

     The Board of Directors serves as the Nominating Committee.  During the year
ended March 31, 2003, one meeting of the Nominating Committee was held.

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     The Audit Committee consists of Directors  Heithaus,  Maynard and Telerico.
This committee  meets on a quarterly  basis and as otherwise  required to review
audit programs and reports as well as other regulatory  compliance  issues.  The
Audit  Committee's  primary  function  is to assist  the Board of  Directors  in
fulfilling  its  oversight  responsibilities.  The  primary  duties of the Audit
Committee include but are not limited to the following:

o    Prepare the report of the Committee  included in the Company's annual proxy
     statements;

o    Serve as an  independent  and  objective  party to  monitor  the  Company's
     financial reporting process and internal control systems;

o    Retain and monitor the qualifications,  independence and performance of the
     Company's independent auditor; and

o    Provide an open  avenue of  communication  among the  independent  auditor,
     senior management, the internal auditing department and the Board.

     Each  member of the Audit  Committee  is  "independent"  as  defined in the
listing standards of the National  Association of Securities Dealers.  The Board
of Directors has adopted a written  charter for the Audit  Committee.  The Audit
Committee  recommends to the Board of Directors the  appointment  of independent
auditors for the upcoming fiscal year. The Audit Committee met four times during
the year ended March 31, 2003.

Audit Committee Report

     The Audit Committee of the Board is responsible for providing  independent,
objective oversight of the Company's accounting functions and internal controls.
The Audit Committee  operates under a written  charter  approved by the Board of
Directors.

     Management is responsible for the Company's internal controls and financial
reporting process. The independent accountants are responsible for performing an
independent  audit  of  the  Company's   consolidated  financial  statements  in
accordance with auditing  standards  generally accepted in the United States and
to issue a report thereon.  The Audit  Committee's  responsibility is to monitor
and oversee these processes.

     In connection  with these  responsibilities,  the Audit  Committee met with
management  and KPMG LLP, the  independent  auditing  firm for the  Company,  to
review and discuss the March 31, 2003  consolidated  financial  statements.  The
Audit  Committee also discussed with KPMG LLP the matters  required by Statement
on Auditing Standards No. 61 (Communication  with Audit  Committees).  The Audit
Committee  also received the written  disclosures  and the letter from KPMG LLP,
required  by   Independence   Standards   Board  Standard  No.  1  (Independence
Discussions  with  Audit  Committees).  Additionally,  the Audit  Committee  has
discussed with KPMG LLP the issue of its independence from the Company.

     Based  upon the  Audit  Committee's  discussions  with  management  and the
independent auditors, and the Audit Committee's review of the representations of
management and the independent  auditors,  the Audit Committee  recommended that
the Board of Directors include the audited consolidated  financial statements in
the  Company's  Annual  Report on Form 10-K for the year ended  March 31,  2003,
filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission.

     This report  shall not be deemed  incorporated  by reference by any general
statement  incorporating by reference this proxy statement into any filing under
the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, or the Exchange Act except to the extent
that the Company  specifically  incorporates this information by reference,  and
shall not otherwise be deemed filed under such Acts.

             This report has been provided by the Audit Committee:

           Director Donald Heithaus (Chairman of the Audit Committee)
                       and Directors Maynard and Telerico


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Stock Performance Graph

     Set forth below is a stock  performance  graph  comparing  the yearly total
return on the  Company's  Common  Stock with (a) the  monthly  cumulative  total
return on stocks  included in the Nasdaq  Composite  Index,  and (b) the monthly
cumulative total return on stocks for federal savings  institutions  included in
the Company's Standard Industry Code ("SIC") Index. The Company first issued its
Common Stock on October 8, 1998. Accordingly, the information presented below is
for the period beginning with the closing price of the Company's Common Stock on
October 8, 1998, its first trading day and ending on March 31, 2003.  Cumulative
return assumes the reinvestment of dividends,  and is expressed in dollars on an
assumed initial investment of $100.

     There  can be no  assurance  that  the  Company's  stock  performance  will
continue in the future with the same or similar trend depicted in the graph. The
Company will not make or endorse any predictions as to future stock performance.






[OBJECT OMITTED]









                                                                    Period Ending
                                       ------------------------------------------------------------------------

                Index                  10/08/98    03/31/99     03/31/00    03/31/01    03/31/02    03/31/03
                -----
                                       ----------- ------------ ----------- ----------- ----------- -----------

                                                                                    
Sound Federal Bancorp, Inc.              100.00      107.35       110.23      139.26      227.67      532.42
SIC  Code  6035  -  Federal   Savings
Institutions                             100.00      107.56       87.49       137.65      163.70      174.38
Nasdaq Market Index                      100.00      145.24       267.45      110.08      111.45      81.74





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Compensation Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation

     The Company does not  independently  compensate  its executive  officers or
employees.   The   Executive   Committee  of  the  Bank  retains  the  principal
responsibility for the compensation of the officers,  directors and employees of
the Bank.  The  Executive  Committee  consists of Directors  Gioffre,  Heithaus,
Dinolfo,  Staudt and McStravick.  The Executive  Committee  reviews the benefits
provided to the Bank's  officers and employees.  During the year ended March 31,
2003 the Executive Committee met three times.

Report of the Compensation Committee

     Under  rules  established  by the SEC,  the  Company is required to provide
certain data and information in regard to the compensation and benefits provided
to the Company's  Chief Executive  Officer and other  executive  officers of the
Company.  The disclosure  requirements for the Chief Executive Officer and other
executive  officers  include  the use of  tables  and a  report  explaining  the
rationale and  considerations  that led to  fundamental  executive  compensation
decisions affecting those individuals.  In fulfillment of this requirement,  the
Executive Committee of the Bank, at the direction of the Board of Directors, has
prepared the following report for inclusion in this proxy statement.

     The Board has delegated to the Executive  Committee the  responsibility  of
assuring  that  the  compensation  of the  Chief  Executive  Officer  and  other
executive  officers is consistent with the  compensation  strategy,  competitive
practices,  the  performance  of the Bank, and the  requirements  of appropriate
regulatory  agencies.  Only  non-employee  directors  who serve on the Executive
Committee  participate  in  executive  compensation  decision  making.  Any cash
compensation  paid to executive  officers is paid by the Bank.  The Company does
not currently pay any cash compensation to executive officers.

     Compensation of senior  management is reviewed  annually on a calendar-year
basis. In general,  the purpose of the annual  compensation  review is to ensure
that the Bank's base salary levels are competitive  with financial  institutions
similar in size, geographic market and business profile in order for the Bank to
attract  and retain  persons of high  quality.  In this  regard,  the  Executive
Compensation  Committee utilized various  informational  sources,  including the
"Savings and Community Bankers Annual Salary Survey." In addition, the Executive
Compensation  Committee considers the overall  profitability of the Bank and the
executive officer's contribution to the Bank when making its decision.

     The  Board  of  Directors  approved  a base  salary  for the  Bank's  Chief
Executive  Officer of $205,000  for fiscal year 2003,  which  represented  a 15%
increase from the Chief  Executive  Officer's  base salary of $177,650 in fiscal
2002.  The 2003  base  salary  was  based  upon the  Chief  Executive  Officer's
performance,   industry  standards,   and  the  successful   completion  of  the
second-step conversion.

     The primary goal of the Bank and its  Executive  Committee is to provide an
adequate level of  compensation  and benefits in order to attract and retain key
executives.  The  performance of each officer is reviewed  annually to determine
his or her contribution to the overall success of the institution.

        This report has been provided by the non-employee members of the
                              Executive Committee:

                 Directors Gioffre, Heithaus, Dinolfo and Staudt

Compensation of Directors

     Directors of the Company receive an annual retainer of $500, except for the
Chairman of the Board who receives $1,000.  Directors of the Bank receive $2,000
for each  meeting  attended,  except for the  Chairman of the Board who receives
$4,000.  In  addition,  the  Chairman  of the Board  receives  a $10,000  annual
retainer for his services as Chairman.

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                             EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION


     The  following  table  sets  forth  information  as  to  annual  and  other
compensation  for services in all capacities  for executive  officers who earned
more than $100,000 in salary and bonuses  during the fiscal year ended March 31,
2003.




==================================================================================================================================
                                                   Summary Compensation Table
==================================================================================================================================
==================================================================================================================================

                             Annual Compensation                                            Long-Term
                                                                                       Compensation Awards
------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------- ---------------
-------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------
        Name and           Fiscal         Salary      Bonus         Other        Restricted   Options/     LTIP      All Other
                                                                   Annual
                                                                Compensation       Stock        SARs                Compensation
   Principal Position         Year         ($)         ($)         ($) (1)      Award(s) ($)     (#)     Payouts      ($) (2)
-------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------
-------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------

                                                                                              
Richard P. McStravick         2003          185,171   10,700       27,200           --           --        --            3,942
President and Chief           2002          171,875   12,000       18,500           --           --        --            3,800
Executive Officer             2001          155,690    9,000       18,675           --           --        --            3,718

-------------------------- ----------- ------------- --------- ---------------- ------------- ---------- --------- ---------------

Anthony J.  Fabiano           2003          148,250   12,000          --            --           --        --           --
Senior Vice President,        2002          124,500    9,000          --            --           --        --           --
Chief Financial Officer       2001          106,167    7,800          --            --           --        --           --
and Corporate Secretary
========================== =========== ============= ========= ================ ============= ========== ========= ===============



(1)  Represents director's fees for service on the Company's and Bank's Board of
     Directors.
(2)  Consists of the use of the Bank's automobile.

Benefits

     Directors  Deferred Fee Plan. The Directors  Deferred Fee Plan  ("Directors
Plan") is a non-qualified  deferred  compensation  plan into which directors can
defer up to 100% of their  board fees  earned  during  the  calendar  year.  All
amounts deferred by a director are fully vested at all times.  Upon cessation of
a director's  service with the Bank,  the Bank will pay the director the amounts
credited to the  director's  deferred fee  account.  The amounts will be paid in
substantially equal annual installments,  as selected by the director.  The date
of the first  installment  payment  also will be selected by the  director.  The
Directors  Plan  permits each  director to determine  whether to invest all or a
portion of such Director's account in Common Stock of the Company.

     If the director  dies before all  payments  have been made,  the  remaining
payments will be made to the beneficiary  designated by the director in the same
form  that  payments  were  made to the  director.  If a  director  dies  before
receiving  any  payments,  the Bank  shall  pay the  director's  account  to the
director's beneficiary,  commencing within 30 days of the director's death, over
the period initially elected by the director. At the request of the beneficiary,
and with the approval of the Board,  the director's  benefits may be paid to the
beneficiary in a lump sum. The director may request a hardship  distribution  of
all or part of his or her  benefits  if the  director  suffers an  unforeseeable
emergency, defined as a severe financial hardship to the director resulting from
a sudden  and  unexpected  illness or  accident  of the  director  or his or her
dependent,  loss of the  director's  property due to casualty,  or other similar
extraordinary  and  unforeseeable  circumstances  arising  as a result of events
beyond the director's control.

     Executive  Agreements.  The Bank has  employment  agreements  with  Messrs.
McStravick and Fabiano. The agreements with Messrs.  McStravick and Fabiano have
a term of three years and may be extended  for an  additional  12 months on each
anniversary date so that the remaining term shall be 36 months. If the agreement
is not renewed,  the agreement will expire 36 months  following the  anniversary
date. Under the agreements, the base salaries for Messrs. McStravick and Fabiano
are $205,000 and $165,000,  respectively.  In addition to the base salary,  each
agreement  provides for, among other things,  participation in retirement plans,
stock option plans and other  employee and fringe  benefits  applicable to other
employees.  The agreements  provide for termination by the Bank for cause at any
time, in which event, the executive would have no right to receive  compensation
or other  benefits  for any  period  after  termination.  In the  event the Bank
terminates the  executive's  employment for reasons other than disability or for

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cause,  or in the event of the  executive's  termination  of employment for good
reason upon (i) failure by the Bank to comply with any material provision of the
agreement,  which  failure  has not been cured  within 10 days after a notice of
noncompliance is issued by the executive, (ii) following a change in control (as
defined) at any time during the term of the  agreement,  or (iii) any  purported
termination  of the  executive's  employment  which is not  pursuant  to a valid
notice of  termination,  the executive  would be entitled to severance pay in an
amount  equal to three times the average  annual  compensation  (computed on the
basis of the most recent five (5) taxable years)  includable in gross income for
federal  income tax purposes.  Messrs.  McStravick  and Fabiano would receive an
aggregate of  approximately  $671,000 and  $470,000,  respectively,  pursuant to
their  employment  agreements  upon a change in control of the Bank,  based upon
current  levels of  compensation.  The Bank would also  continue,  at the Bank's
expense, the executive's life, health,  dental and other applicable benefit plan
coverage  until the executive  attains the age of 70 years,  provided,  however,
that the Bank's  obligation  terminates  if the  executive  receives  equivalent
medical or dental  coverage  from a new  employer.  The executive is entitled to
participate  in the Bank's  medical,  dental  and life  insurance  coverage  and
reimbursement  plans to the extent that such plans exist,  until the executive's
death. Under each agreement,  if the executive becomes disabled or incapacitated
to the extent that the  executive  is unable to perform  his duties,  he will be
entitled  to  100%  of his  compensation  for  the  first  six  months,  and 60%
thereafter for the remaining term of the  agreement.  Any disability  payment is
reduced to the extent benefits are received under disability insurance, workers'
compensation or other similar program.

     In July 2001, the Company entered into  employment  agreements with Messrs.
McStravick and Fabiano. The Company's employment  agreements with each executive
contain  substantially  similar  provisions to the Bank  employment  agreements,
except  that  the  Company   employment   agreements   provide  each   executive
indemnification  against any excise taxes which may be owed by the executive for
any payments made in connection with a change in control which would  constitute
"excess parachute  payments" under Section 280G of the Code. The indemnification
payment would be the amount necessary to ensure that the amount of such payments
and the value of such benefits  received by the executive be equal to the amount
of such payments and the value of such  benefits as the executive  would receive
in the absence of such excise tax, including any federal,  state and local taxes
on the  Company's  payment to the  executive  attributable  to such  taxes.  The
agreements with the Company do not provide for additional compensation to either
executive.

     Severance  Plan for Key  Employees.  Sound  Federal  Savings  maintains the
Severance  Plan for Key  Employees,  which  is  designed  to  offer a degree  of
economic security to employees in the position of assistant  vice-president  and
above in the event  their  services  are  terminated  as a result of a change in
control.  In the  event of (i) the  involuntary  termination  of a key  employee
following  a change in  control  other  than for  cause,  or (ii) the  voluntary
termination  of a key  employee's  employment  within one year after a change in
control, following any demotion, loss of title, office or significant authority,
reduction in annual compensation or benefits or relocation of the key employee's
principal  place of employment by more than 30 miles,  the key employee shall be
entitled  to a  severance  pay in an amount  equal to one  month of base  salary
multiplied by the key employee's years of employment,  up to twenty-four months,
provided  that the minimum  severance  payment will be six months of base salary
for an  assistant  vice-president  and twelve  months for a  vice-president.  In
addition,  the key  employee  will be entitled to  continued  life,  medical and
dental  coverage  for the same  period  as the  number  of  months  used for the
calculation of severance benefits. Severance benefits will be paid in a lump sum
within 30 days of the key employee's termination of employment. Benefits payable
under the Severance  Plan for Key Employees  will be reduced,  if necessary,  to
avoid an "excess  parachute  payment" under Section 280G of the Internal Revenue
Code.

     Director  Emeritus  Plan.  The Director  Emeritus  Plan is a  non-qualified
retirement plan. Under the Director  Emeritus Plan, any director who attains the
age of 70 years  after  the  completion  of 15 years of  service  as a  director
qualifies for director  emeritus status. A director who has completed five years
of service as a director  qualifies  for  director  emeritus if  termination  of
service is due to the  merger,  consolidation,  takeover or  dissolution  of the
Bank. Under the Director  Emeritus Plan, a director  emeritus is entitled to the
same  compensation  that  the  Director  received  when he or she  retired  as a
director,  without  the  obligation  of  attendance  at meetings of the Board of
Directors.  Compensation  is paid to the  director  emeritus  from  the  date of
attainment of such status until age  eighty-five,  or for fifteen years or death
whichever comes first.

     Defined  Benefit  Pension  Plan.  The Bank  maintains  two defined  benefit
pension  plans,  one of which was assumed at the time the Company  completed the
acquisition of Peekskill Financial Corporation  ("Retirement Plans").  Employees


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age 21 or older  who have  worked  at the Bank for a period of one year and have
been  credited with 1,000 or more hours of service with the Bank during the year
are eligible to accrue benefits under the Retirement Plans. The Bank contributes
each year,  if  necessary,  an amount to the  Retirement  Plans to  satisfy  the
actuarially  determined  minimum  funding  requirements  in accordance  with the
Employee  Retirement Income Security Act of 1974, as amended ("ERISA").  For the
year ended March 31, 2003, the Bank made  contributions  to the Retirement Plans
of approximately  $3.1 million.  At December 31, 2002, the total market value of
the assets in the Retirement Plans trust funds was approximately $7.1 million.

     In the event of  retirement on or after the normal  retirement  date (i.e.,
the first day of the calendar month  coincident with or next following the later
of age 65 or the fifth anniversary of participation in the Retirement Plans, or,
for a  participant  prior to January 1, 1992,  age 65),  the plan is designed to
provide a single life  annuity.  For a married  participant,  the normal form of
benefit is an actuarially  reduced joint and survivor  annuity  where,  upon the
participant's  death, the participant's  spouse is entitled to receive a benefit
equal to 50% of that paid during the participant's  lifetime.  Alternatively,  a
participant may elect (with proper spousal  consent,  if necessary) from various
other options,  including a joint and 100% survivor  annuity,  joint and 66-2/3%
survivor  annuity,  joint and 50% survivor  annuity,  years  certain  option and
social security  option.  The normal  retirement  benefit  provided is an amount
equal to the  difference  between 4% of final  earnings (as defined in the plan)
and 0.65% of the final average  compensation  (average  earnings during the last
three (3)  calendar  years of service) up to the Social  Security  taxable  wage
base, multiplied by the participant's years of credited service (up to a maximum
of 15 years).  Retirement benefits are also payable upon retirement due to early
and late retirement or death. A reduced benefit is payable upon early retirement
at age 55 and the completion of 5 years of vested  service with the Bank.  Fifty
percent of the normal  retirement  benefit will be paid to a surviving spouse if
the  participant  dies while in active  service and has  attained age 50 with 10
years of vested service. The preretirement death benefit is reduced by 1.96% for
each year the spouse is more than 10 years younger than the participant.  If the
participant has not attained age 50 with 10 years of service,  but has completed
5 years of service, the spouse will be eligible for a reduced benefit payable as
a joint and 50% annuity.  Upon termination of employment other than as specified
above, a participant who has five years of vested service is eligible to receive
his or her accrued  benefit  commencing,  generally,  on the  employee's  normal
retirement date, or, if elected, on or after reaching age 55.

     The following table indicates the annual  retirement  benefit that would be
payable under the  Retirement  Plans upon  retirement at age 65 in calendar year
2003,  expressed  in the form of a single  life  annuity  for the final  average
salary and benefit service classifications specified below.

                              Years of Service and Benefit Payable at Retirement
   Final Average              --------------------------------------------------
   Compensation                  15           20           25            30
   ------------               -----------  -----------  -----------   ----------

   $   50,000                  $  26,154    $  26,154    $  26,154    $  26,154
   $   75,000                  $  41,154    $  41,154    $  41,154    $  41,154
   $  100,000                  $  56,154    $  56,154    $  56,154    $  56,154
   $125,000                    $  71,154    $  71,154    $  71,154    $  71,154
   $150,000                    $  86,154    $  86,154    $  86,154    $  86,154
   $ 170,000                   $  98,154    $  98,154    $  98,154    $  98,154
   $ 200,000                   $ 116,154    $ 116,154    $ 116,154    $ 116,154


     As of March 31, 2003, Mr.  McStravick and Mr. Fabiano had 25 years and four
years,  respectively,  of credited  service  (i.e.,  benefit  service) under the
Retirement Plans.

     401(k)  Plan.  The  Bank  maintains  the  Sound  Federal  Savings  and Loan
Association  401(k)  Savings Plan in RSI  Retirement  Trust (the "401(k)  Plan")
which  is a  qualified,  tax-exempt  defined  contribution  plan  with a  salary
deferral  feature under Section 401(k) of the Code.  Employees who have attained
age 21 and have  completed one year of employment  are eligible to  participate,
provided,  however,  that  leased  employees,  employees  paid on an  hourly  or
contract basis, employees covered by a collective bargaining agreement and owner
employees  (as defined in the plan) are not  eligible to  participate.  Eligible
employees are entitled to enter the 401(k) Plan on a monthly basis.

     Under the 401(k) Plan,  participants are permitted to make salary reduction
contributions (in whole  percentages)  equal to the lesser of (i) from 1% to 10%

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of  compensation  or (ii)  $10,000 (as indexed  annually).  For these  purposes,
"compensation"  includes  wages,  salary,  fees and other  amounts  received for
personal  services prior to reduction for the  participant  contribution  to the
401(k) plan, commissions, compensation based on profits, overtime, bonuses, wage
continuation  payments  due to illness or  disability  of a  short-term  nature,
amounts  paid  or  reimbursed  for  moving  expenses,   and  the  value  of  any
nonqualified  stock option granted to the extent  includable in gross income for
the year granted.  Compensation does not include  contributions made by the Bank
to any other pension,  deferred compensation,  welfare or other employee benefit
plan,  amounts realized from the exercise of a nonqualified  stock option or the
sale of a qualified stock option,  and other amounts which received  special tax
benefits.  Compensation  does not  include  compensation  in  excess of the Code
Section  401(a)(17)  limits  (i.e.,  $200,000 in 2002).  All  contributions  and
earnings are fully and  immediately  vested.  A participant  may withdraw salary
reduction  contributions,  rollover  contributions and matching contributions in
the event the participant suffers a financial hardship. A participant may make a
withdrawal from his or her accounts for any reason after age 59 1/2.

     The 401(k) Plan permits  employees to direct the  investment  of his or her
own accounts into various investment options including an "Employer Stock Fund."
Participants  are  entitled  to direct the  trustee as to how to vote his or her
allocable shares of Common Stock in the Employer Stock Fund.

     Plan benefits will be paid to each participant in the form of a single cash
payment at normal  retirement  age unless  earlier  payment  is  selected.  If a
participant  dies prior to receipt of the entire value of his or her 401(k) Plan
accounts,  payment will  generally be made to the  beneficiary  in a single cash
payment as soon as possible following the participant's  death.  Payment will be
deferred if the participant had previously  elected a later payment date. If the
beneficiary  is not the  participant's  spouse,  payment will be made within one
year of the date of death. If the spouse is the designated beneficiary,  payment
will be made no later than the date the  participant  would have attained age 70
1/2. Normal retirement age under the 401(k) Plan is age 65. Early retirement age
is age 55.

     At March 31, 2003,  the total market value of the assets in the 401(k) Plan
was approximately $3.1 million.

     Stock  Option  Plan.  During the year ended  March 31,  2000,  the  Company
adopted,  and the Company's  stockholders  approved,  the 1999 Stock Option Plan
(the  "Stock  Option  Plan").  Pursuant  to the Stock  Option  Plan,  options to
purchase  261,453 shares were granted to non-employee  directors  (including two
directors  emeriti)  at an exercise  price of $3.298 per share,  the fair market
value of the underlying shares on the date of the award. The term of the options
is ten years from the date of grant,  and the shares  subject to awards  will be
adjusted   in  the   event  of  any   merger,   consolidation,   reorganization,
recapitalization, stock dividend, stock split, combination or exchange of shares
or other change in the corporate  structure of the Company.  The awards included
an equal number of reload options ("Reload Options"), limited stock appreciation
rights ("Limited Rights") and dividend  equivalent rights ("Dividend  Equivalent
Rights").  A Limited Right gives the option  holder the right,  upon a change in
control of the Company or the Bank, to receive the excess of the market value of
the shares  represented  by the Limited  Rights on the date  exercised  over the
exercise price.  The Limited Rights are subject to the same terms and conditions
as the stock  options.  Payment upon exercise of Limited Rights will be in cash,
or in the event of a merger transaction, for shares of the acquiring corporation
or its parent, as applicable.  The Dividend Equivalent Rights entitle the option
holder to  receive  an amount  of cash at the time  that  certain  extraordinary
dividends  are  declared  equal  to the  amount  of the  extraordinary  dividend
multiplied by the number of options that the person holds.  For these  purposes,
an extraordinary  dividend is defined as any dividend where the rate of dividend
exceeds  the  Bank's  weighted   average  cost  of  funds  on   interest-bearing
liabilities  for the current and preceding  three  quarters.  The Reload Options
entitle  the option  holder,  who has  delivered  shares  that he or she owns as
payment  of the  exercise  price for  option  stock,  to a new option to acquire
additional  shares equal in amount to the shares he or she has traded in. Reload
Options may also be granted to replace  option  shares  retained by the employer
for payment of the option  holder's  withholding  tax. The option price at which
additional  shares of stock can be  purchased by the option  holder  through the
exercise of a Reload Option is equal to the market value of the previously owned
stock at the time it was surrendered.  The option period during which the Reload
Option may be exercised  expires at the same time as that of the original option
that the holder has exercised.

     Set forth below is certain  information  concerning options  outstanding to
the Named  Executive  Officers at March 31, 2003. No options were granted to the
Named  Executive  Officers during fiscal year 2003. No options were exercised by
the Named Executive Officers during fiscal year 2003.

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                          FISCAL YEAR-END OPTION VALUES
====================================================================================================================
============================ ================ ================= ========================= ==========================
                                                                 Number of Unexercised      Value of Unexercised
                              Shares Acquired     Value               Options at          In-The-Money Options at
         Name                  Upon Exercise       Realized              Year-End                Year-End (1)
                                                                ------------------------- --------------------------
                                                                ------------------------- --------------------------
                                                                Exercisable/Unexercisable Exercisable/Unexercisable
                                                                          (#)                        ($)
---------------------------- ---------------- ----------------- ------------------------- --------------------------
---------------------------- ---------------- ----------------- ------------------------- --------------------------
                                                                                 
Richard P. McStravick              --                $--             101,816/25,454           $937,928/$234,482
---------------------------- ---------------- ----------------- ------------------------- --------------------------
Anthony J.  Fabiano                --                $--             88,536/22,134            $815,593/$203,898
============================ ================ ================= ========================= ==========================

------------------------------------
(1)  Based on a market  value  of  $12.51  per  share at March  31,  2003 and an
     exercise price of $3.298.

     Recognition and Retention Plan. During the fiscal year ended March 31, 2000
the  Company  adopted,  and  the  Company's   stockholders  approved,  the  1999
Recognition  and  Retention  Plan  (the  "Recognition  Plan").  Pursuant  to the
Recognition  Plan,  14,575  shares of stock were  awarded  to each  non-employee
director,  except for Messrs.  Maynard and Telerico who did not receive  awards,
and 58,100 and 38,733  shares were awarded to Mr.  McStravick  and Mr.  Fabiano,
respectively.

     The  Company  does not have any equity  compensation  program  that was not
approved by stockholders other than its employee stock ownership plan.

     Set forth  below is  certain  information  as of March 31,  2003  regarding
equity  compensation to directors,  directors  emeriti,  executive  officers and
employees of the Company approved by stockholders.




===================================================================================================================
                                      Number of securities to be                             Number of securities
                                      issued upon exercise of           Weighted average     remaining available for
        Plan Category                 outstanding options and rights     exercise pricse     issuance under plans
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                                                                      
Equity  compensation  plans  approved
 by stockholders(1)                                     822,019               $3.298                    --
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Total                                               822,019               $3.298                    --
===================================================================================================================

-------------
(1)  Includes  40,424 shares  awarded under the  Recognition  and Retention Plan
     that were unvested at March 31, 2003.

Employee Stock Ownership Plan and Trust

     The Bank established an employee stock ownership plan ("ESOP") for eligible
employees. Employees age 21 or older who have worked at the Bank for a period of
one year and have been credited  with 1,000 or more hours of service  during the
year are eligible to  participate.  The ESOP borrowed funds from the Company and
used those funds to purchase  531,563  shares of the Company Common Stock in the
1998 conversion to a mutual holding company.  The ESOP purchased  622,458 shares
of the Company's Common Stock in the Company's  second-step  conversion that was
completed in January 2003. The shares were purchased with the proceeds of a $6.2
million loan from the Company.  The loans are collateralized by the Common Stock
purchased by the ESOP. The Bank will contribute to the ESOP sufficient  funds to
pay the principal and interest on the loans.  At March 31, 2003,  the loans have
balances  of  $961,000  and $6.2  million,  respectively;  have a  ten-year  and
twenty-year  term,  respectively;  and bear interest at the prime rate and 6.0%,
respectively.  Shares  purchased by the ESOP are held in a suspense  account for
allocation among participants as the loan is repaid.

     Shares are released from the suspense account in an amount  proportional to
the repayment of the ESOP loans and are allocated among ESOP participants on the
basis of compensation in the year of allocation.

     Participants in the ESOP received credit for service prior to the effective
date of the ESOP.  A  participant  vests in 100% of his or her  account  balance
after 5 years of credited service.  A participant who terminates  employment for
reasons  other than  death,  retirement,  disability  or  following  a change in

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control  prior to five years of credited  service  will  forfeit  the  nonvested
portion of his or her benefits under the ESOP.  Benefits are payable in the form
of Common Stock and cash upon death,  retirement,  disability or separation from
service.  Alternatively,  a  participant  may request  that the benefits be paid
entirely  in the form of Common  Stock.  The  Company  recognized  an expense of
$532,000  for the ESOP in the fiscal  year ended  March 31,  2003 and  allocated
53,156 shares of Common Stock to participants.

     In connection with the  establishment  of the ESOP, the Bank  established a
committee of  non-employee  directors to  administer  the ESOP and  appointed an
independent  financial  institution  to serve as trustee  of the ESOP.  The ESOP
committee may instruct the trustee regarding  investment of funds contributed to
the  ESOP.  The ESOP  trustee,  subject  to its  fiduciary  duty,  must vote all
allocated  shares  held in the  ESOP in  accordance  with  the  instructions  of
participating employees,  provided such action does not violate ERISA standards.
Under the ESOP,  nondirected  shares,  and shares held in the suspense  account,
will be voted in a manner calculated to most accurately reflect the instructions
it has received from participants  regarding the allocated stock so long as such
vote is in accordance with the provisions of ERISA.

                    TRANSACTIONS WITH CERTAIN RELATED PERSONS

Transactions With Certain Related Persons

     The Bank offers loans to directors,  officers, and employees which are made
by the Bank to such persons in the ordinary course of business on  substantially
the same terms  (other  than  interest  rate),  including  collateral,  as those
prevailing at the time for comparable transactions with other persons, and which
do not involve  more than the normal  risk of  collectibility  or present  other
unfavorable  features.  All such loans were  performing in accordance with their
terms  as of the  date of  this  proxy  statement.  Federal  regulations  permit
executive  officers  and  directors to  participate  in loan  programs  that are
available to other  employees,  so long as the director or executive  officer is
not given preferential treatment compared to other participating  employees. The
interest  rate on loans to directors and officers is the same as that offered to
the Bank's other employees.

     Section 402 of the Sarbanes-Oxley Act of 2002 generally prohibits an issuer
from:  (1) extending or maintaining  credit;  (2) arranging for the extension of
credit;  or (3) renewing an  extension of credit in the form of a personal  loan
for an  officer  or  director.  There are  several  exceptions  to this  general
prohibition, one of which is applicable to the Company.  Sarbanes-Oxley does not
apply to loans made by a depository  institution that is insured by the FDIC and
is subject to the insider  lending  restrictions of the Federal Reserve Act. All
loans to the Company's  directors  and officers are made in conformity  with the
Federal Reserve Act and the FDIC Regulation O.

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     Set forth below is certain  information  as to loans made by Sound  Federal
Savings to certain of its directors and executive officers, or their affiliates,
whose aggregate  indebtedness to Sound Federal Savings  exceeded  $60,000 at any
time  since  April 1, 2002.  Unless  otherwise  indicated,  all of the loans are
secured loans and all loans  designated as residential  loans are first mortgage
loans secured by the borrower's principal place of residence.




                                                                               Highest
                                                                 Original      Balance      Balance on    Interest Rate
                                                      Date        Loan       During 2003     March 31,      on March
 Name of Individual             Loan type          Originated     Amount     Fiscal Year       2003         31, 2003

                                                                                            
Joseph Dinolfo                   Consumer          7/26/2002     $168,000   $ 168,000      $ 151,090          6.500%

Bruno J. Gioffre                 Mortgage           5/6/1998      300,000     249,739        234,153          6.500

Donald H. Heithaus               Mortgage          10/15/1997     300,000     281,205        279,320          6.500
                           Commercial Mortgage     2/27/2002      600,000     586,798        577,021          7.250
                               Home Equity         8/17/1999      200,000     179,331        179,331          6.500
                                 Consumer          12/12/2000      90,000      70,169         53,126          6.500

Joseph A. Lanza                Home Equity         12/17/2002     260,000     177,347        177,347          7.000
                                 Mortgage          12/24/2000     209,000     185,223             --          9.375
                                 Mortgage           2/1/1974       38,000       8,341             --          8.500
                               Home Equity         2/11/2000       60,000      59,118             --          6.500

Richard P. McStravick          Home Equity         8/21/1998      200,000      70,853         59,758          6.500



     Bruno J. Gioffre, in addition to his duties as Chairman of the Board of the
Company,  is  counsel  to  the  law  firm  of  Gioffre  &  Gioffre  Professional
Corporation,  which represents the Bank in mortgage loan  transactions.  For the
year  ended  March  31,  2003,  the Bank paid  Gioffre  &  Gioffre  Professional
Corporation  fees of  $166,000.  The  terms  and  conditions  of these  fees and
services are substantially the same as those for similar transactions with other
parties.

     James Staudt, in addition to his duties as a Director of the Company,  is a
partner in the law firm of McCullough, Goldberger & Staudt which also represents
the Bank in mortgage loan transactions. Effective January 1, 1999, Mr. Staudt is
also general counsel to the Company. For the year ended March 31, 2003, the Bank
paid  McCullough,  Goldberger & Staudt fees of $66,000 and paid Mr. Staudt legal
fees of $35,000 for his services as general counsel.

              PROPOSAL II--RATIFICATION OF APPOINTMENT OF AUDITORS

     The Company's  independent  auditors for the year ended March 31, 2003 were
KPMG LLP. The Board of Directors of the Company has approved the  engagement  of
KPMG LLP to be the Company's  independent auditors for the year ending March 31,
2004,   subject  to  the   ratification  of  the  engagement  by  the  Company's
stockholders at the Meeting.  Representatives of KPMG LLP are expected to attend
the  Meeting to respond to  appropriate  questions  and to make a  statement  if
deemed appropriate.

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     Set forth below is certain information concerning aggregate fees billed for
professional services rendered by KPMG LLP during the year ended March 31, 2003:

                           Audit Fees....... $  132,000
                           Tax Services..... $  113,050
                           All other fees... $  165,000

     Audit fees are for the audit of the March 31, 2003  consolidated  financial
statements  and reviews of  quarterly  financial  information  for the year then
ended. Tax Services represent fees for tax compliance,  consultation and advice.
All other fees consist of fees related to the second-step  conversion (including
the SEC  registration  statement  and comfort  letters)  and fees related to the
internal controls  attestation report required under FDIC regulations.  KPMG LLP
was not paid fees by the  Company  relating  to  financial  information  systems
design and implementation.

     The Audit  Committee  has  considered  whether the  provision  of non-audit
services is  compatible  with  maintaining  KPMG LLP's  independence.  The Audit
Committee concluded that performing such non-audit services does not affect KPMG
LLP's independence in performing its functions as auditor of the Company.

     In order to ratify the selection of KPMG LLP as the  Company's  independent
auditors,  the  proposal  must  receive at least a majority  of the votes  cast,
either  in  person  or by  proxy,  in favor of such  ratification.  The Board of
Directors  recommends a vote "FOR" the  ratification of KPMG LLP as auditors for
the 2004 fiscal year.

                              STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS

     In order to be eligible for inclusion in the Company's  proxy materials for
next year's Annual Meeting of  Stockholders,  any  stockholder  proposal to take
action at such meeting must be received at the Company's  executive office, 1311
Mamaroneck Avenue, White Plains, New York 10605, no later than May 14, 2004. Any
such proposals  shall be subject to the  requirements of the proxy rules adopted
under the Exchange Act.

         ADVANCE NOTICE OF BUSINESS TO BE CONDUCTED AT AN ANNUAL MEETING

     The  Bylaws of the  Company  provide  an advance  notice  procedure  before
certain  business or nominations to the Board of Directors may be brought before
an annual meeting.  In order for a stockholder to properly bring business before
an annual meeting,  or to propose a nominee to the Board,  the stockholder  must
give written notice to the Secretary of the Company not less than 90 days before
the date fixed for such meeting; provided,  however, that in the event that less
than 100 days notice or prior  public  disclosure  of the date of the meeting is
given or made, to be timely, notice by the stockholder must be received no later
than the close of  business  on the tenth day  following  the day on which  such
notice of the date of the annual  meeting was mailed or such  public  disclosure
was made. The notice must include the stockholder's  name,  record address,  and
number  of  shares  owned by the  stockholder,  describe  briefly  the  proposed
business,  the reasons for bringing the business before the annual meeting,  and
any material interest of the stockholder in the proposed  business.  In the case
of nominations to the Board,  certain information  regarding the nominee must be
provided.  Nothing in the  paragraph  shall be deemed to require  the Company to
include in its proxy  statement  and proxy  relating  to an annual  meeting  any
stockholder  proposal which does not meet all of the  requirements for inclusion
established by the SEC in effect at the time such proposal is received.

     The date on which next year's annual meeting of stockholders is expected to
be held is August 12, 2004.  Accordingly,  advance written notice of business or
nominations  to the Board of  Directors  to be brought  before  the next  annual
meeting  of  stockholders  must be given to the  Company no later than April 10,
2004.

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                                  MISCELLANEOUS

     The Board of  Directors  is not aware of any  business  to come  before the
Meeting other than the matters described above in this proxy statement. However,
if any matters  should  properly  come before the Meeting,  it is intended  that
holders  of the  proxies  will act as  directed  by a  majority  of the Board of
Directors, except for matters related to the conduct of the Meeting, as to which
they shall act in accordance with their best judgment.

     The cost of  solicitation  of  proxies  will be borne by the  Company.  The
Company  will  reimburse  brokerage  firms and other  custodians,  nominees  and
fiduciaries for reasonable  expenses incurred by them in sending proxy materials
to the beneficial  owners of Common Stock. In addition to solicitations by mail,
directors,  officers  and  regular  employees  of the Bank may  solicit  proxies
personally or by telegraph or telephone without additional compensation.

     A COPY OF THE  COMPANY'S  ANNUAL  REPORT ON FORM 10-K FOR THE  FISCAL  YEAR
ENDED MARCH 31, 2003 WILL BE FURNISHED  WITHOUT CHARGE TO STOCKHOLDERS AS OF THE
RECORD DATE UPON  WRITTEN  REQUEST TO THE  CORPORATE  SECRETARY,  SOUND  FEDERAL
BANCORP, INC., 1311 MAMARONECK AVENUE, WHITE PLAINS, NEW YORK 10605.

                                              BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

                                              /s/ Anthony J. Fabiano
                                              ------------------------
                                              Anthony J. Fabiano
                                              Corporate Secretary

White Plains, New York
July 14, 2003


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                                 REVOCABLE PROXY

                           SOUND FEDERAL BANCORP, INC.
                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                 August 14, 2003

     The  undersigned  hereby  appoints the full Board of  Directors,  with full
powers of  substitution  to act as attorneys and proxies for the  undersigned to
vote all shares of Common Stock of the Company which the undersigned is entitled
to vote at the Annual  Meeting  of  Stockholders  ("Meeting")  to be held at the
Hyatt Regency-Greenwich, 1800 E. Putnam Avenue, Old Greenwich, Connecticut 06870
at 10:00 a.m.,  (local time) on August 14, 2003. The official proxy committee is
authorized to cast all votes to which the undersigned is entitled as follows:


                                                       FOR     WITHHELD
1.    The election as directors of all nominees
      listed below (except as
      marked to the contrary below)                     [ ]      [ ]

         Roberta I. Bernhardt
         Donald H. Heithaus
         Joseph A. Lanza

      INSTRUCTION:  To withhold your vote for one or
      more   nominees,   write   the   name  of  the
      nominee(s) on the line(s) below.

         ----------------------------------

         ----------------------------------

                                                       FOR    AGAINST    ABSTAIN
2.    The ratification of the appointment of KPMG
      LLP as  auditors  for the fiscal  year  ending   [ ]      [ ]        [ ]
      March 31, 2004.


The Board of Directors recommends a vote "FOR" each of the listed proposals.

THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED AS DIRECTED, BUT IF NO INSTRUCTIONS ARE SPECIFIED, THIS
PROXY  WILL BE VOTED FOR EACH OF THE  PROPOSITIONS  STATED  ABOVE.  IF ANY OTHER
BUSINESS  IS  PRESENTED  AT  SUCH  MEETING,  THIS  PROXY  WILL BE  VOTED  BY THE
ABOVE-NAMED PROXIES AT THE DIRECTION OF A MAJORITY OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. AT
THE  PRESENT  TIME,  THE BOARD OF  DIRECTORS  KNOWS OF NO OTHER  BUSINESS  TO BE
PRESENTED AT THE MEETING.





                THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED BY THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS


     Should the  undersigned  be present  and elect to vote at the Meeting or at
any adjournment  thereof and after  notification to the Secretary of the Company
at the Meeting of the  stockholder's  decision to terminate this proxy, then the
power of said attorneys and proxies shall be deemed terminated and of no further
force or effect. This proxy may also be revoked by sending written notice to the
Secretary  of the  Company  at the  address  set  forth on the  Notice of Annual
Meeting of Stockholders,  or by the filing of a later proxy statement prior to a
vote being taken on a particular proposal at the Meeting.

     The  undersigned  acknowledges  receipt  from  the  Company  prior  to  the
execution of this proxy of a Notice of the Meeting,  the Company's Annual Report
on Form 10-K for the year ended March 31, 2003 and a proxy  statement dated July
14, 2003.


Dated: _________________, 2003             [ ]  Check Box if You Plan
                                                 to Attend Meeting


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Please sign exactly as your name appears on this card. When signing as attorney,
executor,  administrator,  trustee or guardian,  please give your full title. If
shares are held jointly, each holder should sign.





           Please complete and date this proxy and return it promptly
                    in the enclosed postage-prepaid envelope.